Love is a hard thing to define. So many people are quick to tell someone they love them without evening knowing what love is. Those same people are the ones who get upset when the other doesn't say the same. I also believe that one reason why the divorce rate is so high is because they really don't love the person they marry. Yes, they may believe they do but I don't think you fall out of love after a few years of marriage. Can people grow apart, of course they can. When you think you are no longer in love or you are growing apart it's time to take things into your own hands. No one is saying you should erase all the memories you have created but try and go back to the first day you met. Try to remember what you liked about that other person, why you fell in love with them.
I have been given that chance all over again. Being apart from Vincent has been hard, there have been many nights I have cried myself to sleep. But we have now been given the green light to see each other, heck even live together. I know it may sound silly, but it's a chance to get to know each other all over again. Sure we have talked on the phone or via the internet, but it's not the same. Things have changed and we are going to get our life back on track.
See to me that is one thing that love is. It's beating the odds, never never throwing in the towel. As I go forward in our marriage I am always going to remember
Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.Love never fails.
I Corinthians 13:4-8
You are one amazing lady! I hope things go smoothly for you guys as you grow together again. I think about you a lot, and I know you are strong and can do this. Love you!
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